Retired and alone, Antonina Pijevskaya used to feel lost. But when she started giving back through the JDC volunteer center in her native Chișinău, Moldova, she found a new reason to live.
Pijevskaya recently told us what inspires her to serve the most vulnerable people — and how she's formed an unbreakable bond with one client in particular:
"My motivation for volunteering is simple: to do good for others, to treat elderly people with care and kindness, and to give them attention, compassion, and empathy.
When I first started volunteering, it was also a way of coping. My mother was gone, my father was gone, and my daughter had grown up — I had no one left to take care of. I couldn’t imagine sitting at home without work. I knew I needed to help someone.
And then it happened — my calling, my life's purpose.
I saw an announcement for a volunteer fair at our city’s JDC-supported KEDEM Jacobs Jewish Community Center (JCC). It was as if it had appeared just for me, at exactly the right time. I went to the fair and knew I'd found kindred spirits. Pretty soon, I met Yefimiya, who’s now one of my closest friends.
Whenever I visit Yefimiya, 77, I always bring a cake or some tangerines, oranges, or bananas. We sit down at the table, enjoy the treats, and Yefimiya offers me some tea.
We chat a lot. She loves poetry, and I do, too — it’s where we find common ground. Yefimiya writes poetry in multiple languages, and she works at it all the time.
Yefimiya is a disciplined writer. She especially loves writing in the spring. There’s a small garden right outside her window where she grows flowers. This scenery — an oasis of nature in the center of the city — inspires her.
For someone elderly and homebound like Yefimiya, I know our meetings are a priceless source of human connection.
But this feeling cuts both ways. Since I started spending time with her, I no longer feel like a retiree. I now say that in the time I’ve been at the volunteer center, I’ve become 20 years younger!
That's because the more good you do for others, the better you feel about yourself. Volunteering is kindness in action, it’s love, and it’s my way of life — a mission made possible by JDC."