Facebook cofounder says being a CEO was ‘exhausting’—like 82% of bosses, he never intended to manage people
Some were born to lead. But many are just “accidental managers.” Take, Dustin Moskovitz. The millennial cofounded Facebook with his Harvard roommate, Mark Zuckerberg, and went on to become the company’s first CTO before leaving to start Asana, a project management platform, in 2008.
Again, Moskovitz led the startup (this time as CEO), taking the company public in September 2020 and growing it into the $3.4 billion giant it is today, before stepping down earlier this year. But now, looking back, he admits the top job was never really for him.
“I just found it quite exhausting,” Moskovitz recently admitted in Stratechery, while adding that he’s really an introvert.
“I don’t like to manage teams,” he said, while adding that it was never his intention to do so. “I’d intended to be more of an independent or Head of Engineering. Then one thing led to another, and I was CEO for 13 years.”
The result? Having to “put on this face day after day.”
Moskovirz isn’t the first boss to admit that he never intended to manage people. Research shows that as many as 82% of bosses are “accidental”—they had zero training and were simply thrust into the role because they were good at the functional or technical aspects of the job. So it made sense to promote them to show others how it’s done, regardless of whether they actually want to lead. A quarter of these “accidental” bosses wind up in senior leadership roles.
But here’s the kicker: Just as much as accidental managers dread leading, their teams dread being led by them. The research shows that employees under untrained, reluctant leaders are more likely to disengage or leave. When managers aren’t confident in their ability to lead, every decision, interaction, and project becomes more miserable for both sides.
In the end, the double-edged sword of accidental leadership hits everyone. Businesses lose talent, teams lose morale, and managers burn out quietly in roles they never wanted.
—Orianna Rosa Royle Success Associate Editor, Fortune
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Orianna, this is a reminder that technical excellence and people leadership are two very different careers. Many founders and high performers are promoted for what they can do, not for how they can lead, and the gap shows up later in burnout, culture strain, and unclear decision-making. The real shift happens when leaders invest in the skill of leading humans, not tasks. It is the part of the job that cannot be automated, outsourced, or avoided.
Trained managers, i.e. BS or MBA, don't have that reliable of performance either as they don't understand nearly enough of the work to be done and what the crew actually does. Peter Drucker most notably espoused professional managers who could manage anything using financial metrics had never managed anything himself. General consultants to defend their universal expertise assertions also push the "professional management" myth. Accidental managers have more humility than declaring they're ready to run everything after getting hired as well as have built up trust and respect among their colleagues already, a huge head start. Matthew Stewart's "The Myth of Management", Duff McDonald's books on McKinsey and Harvard Business School, the recent critical look at Jack Welch, and others have been rebutting effectively this bad guess that's been institutionalized by business schools over the past 60+ years.
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Leaders must stop surrounding themselves with yes-people and welcome those willing to say no. When ego drives decisions and honest feedback is silenced, culture suffers, and the best and brightest leave once the aura of the founder fades. The cost is double: the company loses top talent and also the contributions the founder could have made if they had led effectively. Real leadership means building an environment where accountability, challenge, and growth are expected, and strategy is followed rather than ignored