Yashmeet Singh’s Post

𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲. That’s what a VP told me once while I was on PTO. Here’s what happened. I was on planned leave. The migration was done. The team was in a change freeze. And yet, I was being threatened with my job. The day before, I had explained the process clearly to the PM under the VP: • Raise the change request. • Share the business impact. • Get CTO approval if urgent. • The team will test and share ETA. But instead of following the process, I was called directly, while I was on leave, playing FIFA on my Xbox 🎮😁. I could have panicked. I could have given in. Instead, I stayed calm and said: “Sir, I’m doing my job. If you want to fire me for that, so be it. I’ll speak with my manager and CTO when I return from PTO.” And then I went back to playing FIFA 🎮 (with my head screaming, “What have you just done?!”). But a few hours later, my manager and CTO called me. They said: “Don’t worry. Enjoy your PTO no one is fired. The team tested the change, and it caused page load spikes. It wouldn’t have been approved anyway.” That evening, reflecting with my dad and my wife, I realised: 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐭, but losing your cool under pressure creates chaos. If you believe you’re doing the right thing, stand firm, even when it feels uncomfortable. 2️⃣ 𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 ≠ 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦. Ego often makes leaders bypass the process. True leadership is respecting the system that protects the business, not pushing rank to override it. 3️⃣ 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫. The moment you react emotionally, you lose control. The moment you stay composed, you hold the room. 👉 Confidence, integrity, and calm won’t always make you popular in the short term. But over time, they become the very reasons people trust you.

I believe that if you get fired for doing the right thing, you were at the wrong place. So the sooner it happens, the better else with time you become used to small compromises in your values. Love these life lessons from the wise man you have become.

Being true and calm in a situation like this is definitely the right way. This reminds of something that happened to me, when I was asked to either complete the task in half the estimate or find something else. I remained calm and trusted my instincts and ended up finding something else that I loved!

If the probability of failure was high then why not have couple of backfills. It would have been handle if process is there and all in place. Matter of alignment then.

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You were fortunate to have had a manager and CTO who backed you up when you followed the defined rules of engagement.

Brilliant post indeed! 💯 “𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐭, but losing your cool under pressure creates chaos. If you believe you’re doing the right thing, stand firm, even when it feels uncomfortable.”

Hmm...let me guess... This was during your time with an "e-commerce company"

Yashmeet Singh I've been there... stayed calm, saved my team a panic rewrite. PTO is sacred! 😅🎮 #boundaries

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What happened to the VP?

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